Navigating Divorce from a Narcissist in New Jersey: A Comprehensive Guide
With Special Focus on Bergen County
Table of Contents
Understanding Narcissistic Personality Traits in Divorce
Divorcing a spouse with narcissistic tendencies presents unique challenges that can significantly complicate the legal process. While not all difficult divorces involve clinical Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), understanding how narcissistic traits manifest during divorce can help you prepare effectively.
Common Behaviors to Expect:
Control and manipulation: Narcissistic individuals often need to maintain control and may use manipulation tactics to achieve their goals.
Lack of empathy: They may show little concern for your emotional well-being or the impact of the divorce on children.
Vindictiveness: Perceived rejection through divorce can trigger extreme anger and revenge-seeking behaviors.
Financial deception: They may hide assets, create financial obstacles, or use money as a form of control.
Parental alienation attempts: They might try to damage your relationship with your children.
Refusal to compromise: Settlement negotiations can be exceptionally difficult as they may view compromise as "losing."
Portraying themselves as victims: Despite their actions, they may present themselves as the wronged party.
Extended litigation: They may deliberately prolong the process to increase emotional and financial strain.
Understanding these patterns isn't about diagnosing your spouse but about preparing yourself for potential challenges ahead. This knowledge allows you to develop appropriate strategies with your legal team and mental health support network.
Initial Preparation Steps
Before filing for divorce or responding to divorce papers, thorough preparation is essential—especially when dealing with a narcissistic spouse.
Immediate Safety Considerations
If there is any history of abuse or you fear for your safety:
Document all instances of threatening behavior
Contact the Bergen County Domestic Violence Services: 201-336-7575
Consider filing for a temporary restraining order at the Bergen County Superior Court if necessary
Financial Preparation
Gather financial documents:
Tax returns (previous 3-5 years)
Bank statements (joint and individual)
Investment and retirement account statements
Property deeds and mortgage information
Vehicle titles and loan documents
Credit card statements
Business records if applicable
Pay stubs and income verification
Insurance policies
Secure funds:
Open individual bank accounts if you don't already have them
Set aside emergency funds if possible
Consider applying for individual credit cards to establish separate credit
Monitor joint accounts for unusual activity
Credit protection:
Request your credit report and address any discrepancies
Consider placing fraud alerts or credit freezes
Remove your spouse as an authorized user on your credit accounts
Digital Security
Change passwords on all personal accounts
Create new email accounts for divorce-related communications
Review privacy settings on social media accounts
Consider using secure, encrypted communication tools
Back up important documents to secure cloud storage
Support Network
Identify trusted friends and family who can provide emotional support
Research therapists specializing in high-conflict divorce or narcissistic abuse
Consider joining support groups specifically for those divorcing narcissistic partners
Research divorce coaches who understand high-conflict divorce dynamics
Taking these preparatory steps before formal proceedings begin can provide you with greater security and strategic advantage during what may become a contentious process.
Legal Representation: Finding the Right Attorney
When divorcing a narcissistic spouse, your choice of legal representation is particularly crucial. In Bergen County, finding an attorney with specific experience handling high-conflict divorces involving narcissistic individuals can make a significant difference in your case outcome.
What to Look for in an Attorney
Experience with high-conflict divorces: Ask potential attorneys about their specific experience dealing with narcissistic personalities in divorce cases.
Familiarity with Bergen County Family Court: Local knowledge of judges, mediators, and court procedures in Bergen County can be invaluable.
Strong boundaries: Your attorney should be able to maintain firm boundaries when dealing with your spouse and their legal team.
Strategic thinking: Look for an attorney who can anticipate your spouse's moves and plan accordingly.
Communication style: Choose someone who communicates clearly and responds promptly to your concerns.
Trial experience: While settlement is preferable, your attorney should be prepared and experienced to go to trial if necessary.
Questions to Ask Potential Attorneys
"What percentage of your practice is dedicated to family law?"
"What experience do you have with high-conflict divorces involving controlling or narcissistic personalities?"
"Are you familiar with the judges in Bergen County Family Court?"
"What is your approach to dealing with difficult opposing parties?"
"How do you handle cases where the other party is likely to hide assets?"
"What strategies have you used in cases involving parental alienation?"
"What is your fee structure, and how do you manage cases to control costs?"
Building an Effective Legal Team
In complex cases involving narcissistic individuals, you may benefit from:
Forensic accountants: To uncover hidden assets or income
Child custody evaluators: To provide professional assessments in custody disputes
Mental health professionals: To document impacts on you and your children
Divorce coaches: To help navigate the emotional aspects while making rational decisions
Remember that the attorney-client relationship is crucial. You need someone you trust, who understands the unique dynamics of your situation, and who will advocate strongly for your interests while maintaining professionalism.
New Jersey Divorce Process Overview
Understanding the divorce process in New Jersey is essential for setting realistic expectations and developing appropriate strategies, especially when dealing with a narcissistic spouse who may attempt to manipulate or delay proceedings.
Types of Divorce in New Jersey
Uncontested Divorce: Both parties agree on all issues (rare when divorcing a narcissist)
Contested Divorce: Disagreements exist on one or more issues
Default Divorce: When one spouse doesn't respond to divorce papers
Divorce from Bed and Board: Legal separation that resolves financial matters while remaining legally married
Grounds for Divorce
New Jersey allows both fault and no-fault grounds:
No-fault grounds:
Irreconcilable differences for 6+ months
18+ months of separation
Fault-based grounds:
Extreme cruelty
Adultery
Desertion (12+ months)
Addiction
Institutionalization (24+ months)
Imprisonment
Deviant sexual conduct
When dealing with a narcissistic spouse, the no-fault option of "irreconcilable differences" is often recommended as it provides less opportunity for conflict and emotional manipulation.
Key Steps in the New Jersey Divorce Process
Filing the Complaint: Initiates the divorce process
Filed in the county where either spouse resides (Bergen County Superior Court for Bergen County residents)
Includes basic information and grounds for divorce
Filing fee is approximately $300 (fee waivers available for financial hardship)
Serving the Complaint: Formal notification to your spouse
Must be properly served according to court rules
Your spouse has 35 days to respond
Narcissistic individuals may avoid service or delay responding
Case Management Conference: Initial court appearance
Establishes timeline for the case
Identifies contested issues
May order temporary support or custody arrangements
Discovery Phase: Exchange of information
Interrogatories (written questions)
Requests for documents
Depositions (sworn testimony)
This phase may be particularly challenging with a narcissistic spouse who may hide assets or be uncooperative
Early Settlement Panel (ESP): Mandatory settlement attempt
Experienced family law attorneys review the case and make recommendations
Non-binding but often helps resolve cases
Economic Mediation: Court-ordered if financial issues remain unresolved
First few hours may be free in New Jersey
Focuses specifically on financial matters
Intensive Settlement Conference (ISC): Final settlement attempt before trial
Trial: If settlement attempts fail
Judge will hear evidence and testimony
Can be lengthy and expensive
Judge makes final decisions on all unresolved issues
Narcissistic individuals may prefer trial as a forum for conflict and attention
Post-Judgment Motions: May be filed after divorce is finalized
Requests to modify support or custody
Appeals of court decisions
Enforcement of court orders
Timeline Expectations
Simple, uncontested divorces: 3-6 months
Contested divorces: 1-2 years
High-conflict divorces involving narcissistic personalities: Often 2+ years
Understanding that narcissistic individuals often use delay tactics and unnecessary litigation can help you mentally prepare for a potentially lengthy process while working with your attorney to move the case forward efficiently.
Bergen County Family Court: What to Expect
Bergen County's Family Division operates within the Superior Court of New Jersey and has specific procedures and resources that can impact your divorce case. Understanding how the local court functions will help you navigate the process more effectively.
Bergen County Superior Court - Family Division
Location: Justice Center, 10 Main Street, Hackensack, NJ 07601
Phone: 201-221-0700
Hours: Monday through Friday, 8:30 AM to 4:30 PM
Website: njcourts.gov/courts/superior-court/family-division
Key Personnel
Family Division Manager: Oversees administrative functions
Team Leaders: Supervise case management teams
Case Managers: Handle scheduling and procedural matters
Judges: Currently 12 judges assigned to family matters in Bergen County
Bergen County is known for having experienced family court judges who are generally well-versed in high-conflict divorce cases.
Local Court Programs and Resources
Parent Education Program: Mandatory for divorcing parents with children under 18
Focuses on reducing conflict's impact on children
Currently offered virtually due to pandemic adjustments
Custody/Parenting Time Mediation: Court-appointed mediators
Initial session is free
Used for developing parenting plans
Early Settlement Panel (ESP): Bergen County has a particularly active ESP program
Local attorneys volunteer to review cases and recommend settlements
Held virtually or in person depending on current court protocols
Complementary Dispute Resolution (CDR): Additional mediation options
Bergen County Family Success Center: Provides resources for families in transition
Bergen County Specific Considerations
Socioeconomic factors: Bergen County has one of the highest median household incomes in New Jersey, which can affect support calculations and lifestyle considerations
Property values: High-value real estate requires careful appraisal and evaluation
Professional population: Many cases involve complex compensation structures including bonuses, stock options, and business interests
Cultural diversity: Court services may be available in multiple languages
Electronic Filing
Bergen County Family Court now utilizes the Judiciary Electronic Document Submission (JEDS) system for many filings. This system:
Allows for secure electronic submission of documents
Reduces the need for in-person visits to the courthouse
Speeds processing time for many requests
Virtual Court Proceedings
Since the pandemic, Bergen County Family Court has maintained hybrid operations with many proceedings conducted virtually. This can be:
More convenient for scheduling
Less emotionally taxing than in-person confrontations with a narcissistic ex-spouse
Potentially less intimidating for those dealing with controlling personalities
Your attorney will help you understand which proceedings require in-person attendance and which can be handled virtually.
Child Custody and Parenting Time
Child custody battles can be particularly challenging when divorcing a narcissistic spouse, as they may view children as extensions of themselves or use them as pawns in the divorce process. New Jersey courts prioritize the best interests of the child above all other considerations.
Types of Custody in New Jersey
Legal Custody: Decision-making authority regarding education, healthcare, religion, and other major decisions
Joint Legal Custody: Both parents share decision-making (most common)
Sole Legal Custody: One parent has exclusive decision-making authority (granted only in exceptional circumstances)
Physical Custody: Where the child primarily resides
Primary Physical Custody: Child lives primarily with one parent
Shared Physical Custody: Child splits time between parents (50/50 or other arrangements)
Best Interests of the Child Standard
New Jersey courts consider numerous factors when determining custody:
The parents' ability to agree, communicate, and cooperate
The parents' willingness to accept custody
Any history of unwillingness to allow parenting time
The child's relationship with parents and siblings
History of domestic violence
The child's safety and needs
The stability of each home environment
The quality and continuity of the child's education
The parents' fitness
Geographical proximity of parental homes
The child's preferences (if of sufficient age and capacity)
The child's needs
The parents' employment responsibilities
The age and number of children
Our team is experienced in every type of divorce in New Jersey and can provide a free initial phone consult on 201-205-3201 via phone, text, VM and we will set a time.
Dealing with a Narcissistic Co-Parent
When seeking custody where a narcissistic parent is involved:
Document patterns of behavior: Keep detailed records of:
Communication attempts and responses
Incidents of manipulation or control
Parenting time violations
Disparaging comments about you to or in front of the children
Decision-making that excludes you
Request specific court orders:
Detailed parenting time schedules that leave little room for manipulation
Specified communication methods (email, parenting apps like Our Family Wizard or Talking Parents)
Clear decision-making protocols
Provisions for handling schedule changes
Consider requesting:
Reunification therapy if alienation has occurred
Co-parenting counseling with clear guidelines
Parenting coordination for ongoing disputes
Bergen County Custody Evaluations
In high-conflict cases, the court may order a custody evaluation. In Bergen County, this may involve:
Court-appointed evaluators through the Family Division
Private evaluations by psychologists or psychiatrists
Collaborative evaluations with multiple professionals
These evaluations typically include:
Individual interviews with parents
Observations of parent-child interactions
Psychological testing
Home visits
Collateral contacts (teachers, healthcare providers, etc.)
Review of relevant records
Parenting Time (Visitation) Considerations
When establishing parenting time schedules:
Be realistic: Consider work schedules, distance between homes, and children's activities
Be specific: Include details about pickup/dropoff times, locations, and protocols
Address holidays and special occasions: Create clear provisions for birthdays, vacations, and holidays
Include communication provisions: Specify when and how the non-custodial parent can communicate with the children
Modifications to Custody Orders
Custody orders can be modified when there is a substantial change in circumstances. When co-parenting with a narcissist, be prepared for potential post-divorce modification requests used as control tactics.
Bergen County Resources for Custody Issues
Bergen County Family Success Center: Offers parenting education and support
Bergen County Law Guardian Program: Provides attorneys to represent children's interests in high-conflict cases
Children's Aid and Family Services: Offers supervised visitation programs when necessary
When dealing with a narcissistic co-parent, maintaining focus on your children's well-being rather than engaging in power struggles will not only benefit your children but also strengthen your position in court.
Alimony/Spousal Support in New Jersey
Alimony (also called spousal support or maintenance) can be a particularly contentious issue when divorcing a narcissistic spouse, who may resist financial obligations or attempt to hide income to reduce payments. Understanding New Jersey's alimony laws can help you pursue fair support.
Types of Alimony in New Jersey
New Jersey recognizes several types of alimony:
Open Durational Alimony: For marriages lasting 20+ years; no predetermined end date
Limited Duration Alimony: Temporary support for a specific period, typically for marriages under 20 years
Rehabilitative Alimony: Short-term support with a specific purpose (education, training) and a rehabilitation plan
Reimbursement Alimony: Repayment for financial support provided during marriage (such as funding a spouse's education)
Pendente Lite (Temporary) Alimony: Support during the divorce proceedings
For marriages under 20 years, the duration of alimony generally cannot exceed the length of the marriage, except in exceptional circumstances.
Factors Determining Alimony
New Jersey courts consider these factors when deciding alimony:
The need and ability of the parties to pay
Duration of the marriage
Age and physical/emotional health of the parties
Standard of living established during the marriage
Earning capacities and educational levels
Length of absence from the job market
Parental responsibilities
Time and expense for education/training
History of financial and non-financial contributions
Tax consequences
Any other factors the court deems relevant
Alimony Calculations
Unlike child support, New Jersey does not have a specific formula for calculating alimony. However, common considerations include:
The difference in the spouses' incomes
The recipient's reasonable needs based on marital lifestyle
The payor's ability to maintain their own comparable lifestyle while paying support
Dealing with Income Manipulation
Narcissistic spouses may attempt to:
Underreport income
Hide assets
Create artificial business losses
Voluntarily reduce income
Delay case proceedings to avoid payment
Strategies to address these issues:
Hire a forensic accountant to analyze financial records and identify discrepancies
Subpoena financial records from employers, financial institutions, and business partners
Request income imputation if your spouse is deliberately underemployed
Document lifestyle expenditures that don't match reported income
Consider vocational evaluations to establish earning capacity
Tax Implications
Since the 2019 tax law changes:
Alimony is no longer tax-deductible for the payor
Alimony is not taxable income for the recipient
This change has significantly impacted settlement negotiations
Modification or Termination of Alimony
Alimony may be modified or terminated based on:
Substantial change in circumstances
Cohabitation of the recipient spouse
Retirement of the paying spouse
Death of either spouse
Remarriage of the recipient spouse
With narcissistic ex-spouses, be prepared for repeated modification requests as a form of ongoing control or harassment.
Enforcing Alimony Orders
If your former spouse fails to pay court-ordered alimony:
File an enforcement motion with the court
Request wage garnishment
Seek judgment for arrears with interest
Request counsel fees for enforcement costs
In extreme cases, contempt of court with possible incarceration
Bergen County Considerations
Bergen County's higher cost of living may be reflected in alimony determinations
Local judges are familiar with the substantial costs of maintaining households in this area
The county's economic profile includes many high-income professionals, making complex compensation analysis common
Working with an attorney experienced in Bergen County alimony cases will help ensure you receive appropriate financial support during and after your divorce from a narcissistic spouse.
Equitable Distribution of Assets
Equitable distribution is the process by which marital property is divided in a divorce. New Jersey is an equitable distribution state, meaning assets are divided fairly—but not necessarily equally. This process can be particularly challenging when divorcing a narcissistic spouse who may hide assets or fight aggressively for property.
What Qualifies as Marital Property in New Jersey
Generally, marital property includes assets acquired during the marriage, regardless of whose name is on the title:
Real estate purchased during marriage
Retirement accounts (portions accrued during marriage)
Investment accounts and stocks
Business interests developed during marriage
Personal property (vehicles, furniture, art, etc.)
Bank accounts
Income earned during marriage
Separate Property (Generally Not Subject to Distribution)
Assets owned prior to marriage
Inheritances specifically to one spouse
Gifts received by one spouse from someone other than the marital partner
Personal injury awards for pain and suffering
Property designated as separate in a valid prenuptial agreement
However, separate property can become partially marital if:
It appreciates during marriage due to joint efforts
It becomes commingled with marital assets
Marital funds are used to maintain or improve it
Steps in the Equitable Distribution Process
Identification: Cataloging all assets and debts
Valuation: Determining the value of each asset
Classification: Determining whether each asset is marital or separate
Distribution: Dividing assets equitably based on various factors
Factors Courts Consider in Distribution
New Jersey courts consider many factors, including:
Duration of the marriage
Age and health of the parties
Income and property brought to the marriage
Standard of living established during marriage
Written agreements between parties (prenups/postnups)
Economic circumstances of each party
Contribution of each party to education/earning power of the other
Contribution of each party to acquisition/preservation of assets
Tax consequences
Present value of property
Need of parent with physical custody to own the family home
Debts and liabilities of the parties
Need for creation of trust funds
Contribution of each party as homemaker
Special Considerations When Divorcing a Narcissist
1. Hidden Asset Detection
Narcissistic spouses commonly hide assets through:
Transferring property to friends/family
Creating fake debts
Deferring income or bonuses
Overpaying taxes to receive refunds after divorce
Using business entities to conceal assets
Purchasing items that are easily undervalued
Detection strategies:
Hire a forensic accountant
Subpoena financial records
Compare lifestyle to reported income
Review tax returns carefully
Conduct thorough discovery
Depose financial institutions, business partners, or accountants
2. Business Valuation Challenges
If your spouse owns a business:
Request a comprehensive business valuation by a certified expert
Consider both book value and goodwill value
Look for personal expenses being paid through the business
Review customer/client lists and contracts
Analyze business tax returns against personal spending
3. Retirement Account Division
Qualified retirement accounts require a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO)
Non-qualified retirement plans may require different approaches
Stock options and restricted stock units require specialized valuation
4. The Marital Home
Options include:
Sell and divide proceeds
One spouse buys out the other's interest
Deferred sale (typically until children finish school)
Continued co-ownership (rarely recommended with narcissistic ex-spouses)
5. High-Value and Sentimental Items
Get professional appraisals for valuable collections, art, jewelry, etc.
Document provenance of family heirlooms
Consider using a neutral third party to facilitate division of personal property
Bergen County Specific Considerations
High property values make real estate division particularly significant
Substantial commuter population with employment in NYC may have complexities with out-of-state employment benefits
Higher concentration of business owners requiring business valuations
Diverse cultural backgrounds may involve international assets
Documentation Needed for Equitable Distribution
Tax returns (past 5 years)
Bank and investment account statements
Retirement account statements
Real estate deeds and mortgage documents
Vehicle titles
Life insurance policies
Business financial statements
Credit card statements
Loan documents
Appraisals of valuable assets
Personal property inventories
Inheritances and gifts documentation
Working with experienced legal and financial professionals is essential when facing equitable distribution with a narcissistic spouse who may be unwilling to provide full financial disclosure or may contest valuations at every opportunity.
Counsel Fees and Litigation Expenses
The cost of divorce litigation can be substantial, particularly when divorcing a narcissistic spouse who may deliberately prolong proceedings or create unnecessary conflict. Understanding how legal fees are handled in New Jersey, and specifically in Bergen County, can help you plan financially and potentially recover some costs.
Fee Arrangements with Attorneys
Most family law attorneys in New Jersey work under one of these arrangements:
Hourly billing: Rates in Bergen County typically range from $300-$750 per hour depending on experience
Retainer deposits: Initial payments that attorneys bill against (typically $5,000-$25,000 in high-conflict cases)
Flat fees: Less common in contested divorces but may be available for specific services
Court-Ordered Counsel Fees
New Jersey courts have the authority to order one spouse to pay all or part of the other spouse's attorney fees and litigation costs. This is particularly relevant when:
Financial disparity exists between parties
Bad faith is demonstrated by one party
One party's actions unnecessarily prolong litigation
N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23 and New Jersey Court Rule 5:3-5(c) govern fee awards, with courts considering:
Financial circumstances of both parties
Ability to pay
Good or bad faith of either party
Results obtained
Complexity of issues
Rates for similar services in the community
Experience and ability of attorneys
Time and labor required
Reasonableness of fees
Our team is experienced in every type of divorce in New Jersey and can provide a free initial phone consult on 201-205-3201 via phone, text, VM and we will set a time.
Requesting Counsel Fees
To request attorney fees:
Pendente lite (temporary) fee awards: Can be requested early in the case to level the playing field when one spouse controls the finances
Application for counsel fees: Filed with certification detailing:
Services rendered
Time expended
Expertise required
Reasonableness of fees
Financial need
Bad faith actions by the other party
Final fee determination: Often addressed in the final judgment of divorce
Documenting Bad Faith for Fee Awards
When divorcing a narcissistic spouse who employs manipulative litigation tactics, documentation is crucial:
Keep chronological records of delays and obstructive behaviors
Document discovery violations and failure to provide information
Save communications showing unreasonable positions
Track unnecessary motions or court appearances
Note any violations of court orders
Preserve evidence of false allegations
Litigation Fund Requests
If your spouse controls the finances, you can request that the court order them to provide funds for your legal representation through:
Motion for pendente lite support
Specific request for litigation funds
Request for advance distribution of marital assets to fund litigation
Controlling Your Own Legal Costs
Even if counsel fees may be awarded later, managing costs during the process is important:
Communicate efficiently with your attorney
Organize documents and information
Prioritize issues worth contesting
Consider limited scope representation for specific issues
Explore alternative dispute resolution when appropriate
Request itemized billing statements
Expert Witness Fees
High-conflict divorces often require expert witnesses for:
Custody evaluations
Business valuations
Forensic accounting
Vocational assessments
Real estate appraisals
Courts may order:
Equal sharing of expert costs
Proportional payment based on income
One party to bear full costs
Reimbursement at the conclusion of the case
Bergen County Practices
Bergen County judges have demonstrated willingness to award substantial counsel fees in cases of demonstrated bad faith
The county's Family Part judges are generally familiar with higher billing rates due to the area's cost of living
Fee applications are taken seriously when well-documented and reasonable
Remember that the threat of counsel fee awards can sometimes serve as leverage to discourage a narcissistic spouse from engaging in unnecessarily prolonged litigation or obstructive tactics.
Documentation and Evidence Collection
When divorcing a narcissistic spouse, thorough documentation and evidence collection are critical for establishing patterns of behavior, supporting your claims, and protecting yourself throughout the process. Courts rely heavily on documentary evidence rather than verbal allegations.
Key Categories of Evidence to Collect
1. Financial Documentation
All account statements (checking, savings, investment, retirement)
Tax returns (personal and business) for the past 5 years
Pay stubs, W-2s, and 1099s
Property records and deeds
Vehicle titles and registrations
Insurance policies and statements
Credit card statements
Loan documents
Business records if applicable
Records of valuable personal property
Best practices:
Begin collecting statements before announcing divorce intentions
Go back at least 3-5 years to establish patterns
Review statements for unusual transactions
Request records directly from institutions if necessary
2. Communication Records
Emails and text messages
Social media posts and messages
Voicemails (transcribe important ones)
Written correspondence
Communication through parenting apps
Notes from in-person conversations (written soon after)
Best practices:
Never delete electronic communications
Back up text messages and emails to secure storage
Screenshot social media posts that may be deleted
Use communication apps that maintain permanent records
Forward important emails to a secure account
3. Parenting and Custody Evidence
Calendar of parenting time actually exercised
School records and communications with teachers
Medical records and communications with healthcare providers
Documentation of child-related expenses
Records of involvement in children's activities
Evidence of parental alienation attempts
Notes about exchanges and interactions with children
Documentation of canceled visits or no-shows
Best practices:
Keep a detailed parenting journal
Document both positive and negative interactions
Record who attends school conferences, medical appointments, etc.
Save communications about the children
4. Evidence of Narcissistic Behavior
Instances of control, manipulation, or gaslighting
Verbal or emotional abuse (audio recordings where legally permitted)
Patterns of dishonesty or broken agreements
Attempts to isolate you from support systems
Financial control or manipulation
Using children as pawns in the conflict
Best practices:
Focus on factual documentation rather than emotional interpretations
Note date, time, location, and witnesses for each incident
Record specific quotes and actions
Document your responses and outcomes
Legal Considerations for Evidence Collection
New Jersey Recording Laws
New Jersey is a one-party consent state for audio recording, meaning:
You can legally record conversations in which you are a participant
You cannot record conversations between other people without consent
Video recording without audio may be permissible in common areas of your home
Admissibility of Evidence
For evidence to be admissible in New Jersey courts:
It must be relevant to the issues in the case
It must be authenticated (proven to be what you claim it is)
It cannot be illegally obtained
Hearsay rules may limit some written statements by third parties
Documentation Systems
Create organized systems for your evidence:
Chronological logs of incidents with cross-references to supporting evidence
Digital folders for electronic evidence, organized by category
Physical binders for paper documents
Cloud-based backup of all electronic evidence
Chain of custody records for important documents
Working with Professionals
Attorneys: Provide copies of all documentation to your legal team
Financial experts: Work with forensic accountants for complex financial investigations
Mental health professionals: Share relevant documentation with therapists working with you or your children
Private investigators: May be appropriate for asset searches or documentation of concerning behavior
Evidence for Specific Issues
For Hidden Assets
Lifestyle analysis (expenses vs. reported income)
Business records showing personal expenses
Transfers to friends, family, or unknown entities
Large cash withdrawals
Pattern of increasing debt before divorce
For Emotional Abuse
Communications containing threats, insults, or manipulation
Witnesses to incidents
Mental health impacts (therapy records, medications)
Impact on children's wellbeing
For Custody Issues
Documentation of parenting capabilities
Evidence of interference with your relationship with children
Records of inappropriate behavior around children
Documentation of positive parenting when children are with you
Methodical documentation is your strongest defense against a narcissistic spouse who may attempt to manipulate facts, rewrite history, or present a false image to the court. Begin gathering evidence as early as possible and maintain consistent documentation throughout the divorce process.
Protecting Yourself During the Process
Divorcing a narcissistic spouse requires specific strategies to safeguard your emotional, financial, and physical wellbeing throughout the process. Protection must be multifaceted and proactive rather than reactive.
Emotional Protection
Establish emotional boundaries:
Limit direct contact when possible
Use written communication methods that create records
Implement the "gray rock" method (being unresponsive to provocations)
Set time limits for necessary interactions
Build your support network:
Work with a therapist experienced in narcissistic abuse
Join support groups (online or in-person)
Reconnect with friends and family you may have been isolated from
Consider divorce coaching for strategic emotional support
Recognize manipulation tactics:
Gaslighting (making you question your reality)
Love bombing (temporary charm and affection to regain control)
Triangulation (using children or others against you)
Projection (accusing you of their behaviors)
Silent treatment and stonewalling
Practice self-care routines:
Establish regular sleep patterns
Maintain physical exercise
Practice mindfulness and stress reduction techniques
Consider therapeutic approaches like EMDR for trauma
Financial Protection
Secure your credit:
Order credit reports from all three bureaus
Place fraud alerts or credit freezes if necessary
Remove spouse as authorized user on your accounts
Create financial identity separate from your spouse
Safeguard accounts and assets:
Open individual accounts at different financial institutions
Change passwords and PINs on existing individual accounts
Redirect your portion of income to personal accounts
Inventory and secure valuable personal possessions
Document the condition and presence of marital assets
Monitor joint accounts:
Set up alerts for large withdrawals
Keep records of all transactions
Consider agreements to limit withdrawals during proceedings
Budget for independence:
Create realistic post-divorce budget
Build emergency savings if possible
Research affordable housing options
Understand your credit position for future needs
Physical and Digital Security
Home security measures:
Change locks if spouse has moved out (with court permission)
Consider security systems or cameras for documentation
Inform trusted neighbors about your situation if appropriate
Create a safe room or exit plan if there are safety concerns
Digital protection:
Change all passwords using complex, unique combinations
Enable two-factor authentication on all accounts
Check devices for tracking software or spyware
Review cloud accounts, shared devices, and location sharing
Create new email accounts for divorce-related communications
Adjust privacy settings on social media or consider temporary deactivation
Identity protection:
Secure important documents (birth certificates, passports, etc.)
Change mailing addresses for sensitive information
Be cautious about shared family passwords and security questions
Legal Protection Strategies
Strategic communication:
Document all interactions
Communicate in writing when possible
Use neutral, factual language
Consider using parenting communication apps with recordkeeping
Avoid responding emotionally to provocations
Court orders for protection:
Temporary restraining orders if there is threatening behavior
Court orders prohibiting dissipation of assets
Specific orders regarding communication methods
Orders for psychological evaluations if appropriate
Set clear boundaries in legal proceedings:
Specify meeting parameters (who attends, time limits)
Request judicial intervention when boundaries are violated
Use attorneys for all communication when necessary
Request bifurcation of contested issues when possible
Workplace Protection
Inform key personnel at work:
Alert security if there are safety concerns
Talk to HR about potential disruptions
Request flexible scheduling for court dates if needed
Consider privacy measures for your office location
Protect work communications:
Use private email and phone for divorce matters
Ensure spouse does not have access to work accounts
Be cautious about shared devices or cloud services
Bergen County Resources
Legal protection resources:
Bergen County Courthouse: Domestic Violence Unit (201-527-2363)
Bergen County Prosecutor's Office: Special Victims Unit (201-646-2300)
Bergen County Sheriff's Office (201-336-3500)
Community support:
Center for Hope and Safety (formerly Shelter Our Sisters): 24-hour hotline at 201-944-9600
Bergen County Alternatives to Domestic Violence: 201-336-7575
Bergen Family Center: Counseling services at 201-342-9200
Remember that protection strategies must evolve throughout the divorce process as your narcissistic spouse may escalate or change tactics. Regular consultation with your attorney about emerging concerns allows for proactive rather than reactive protection.
Protecting Your Children
Children are often deeply affected by high-conflict divorces involving narcissistic parents. Protecting them requires a delicate balance between shielding them from conflict while maintaining healthy relationships and emotional well-being.
Understanding the Impact on Children
Children of narcissistic parents may experience:
Confusion about conflicting messages from parents
Pressure to take sides or spy on the other parent
Emotional manipulation and guilt-inducing behaviors
Role reversal (being treated as confidants or emotional support)
Fear of abandonment or disappointing either parent
Difficulty expressing their own needs and emotions
Anxiety about transitions between homes
Academic or behavioral problems
Legal Protections for Children
Custody arrangements designed for protection:
Detailed parenting plans with minimal room for manipulation
Specific provisions for transitions, communication, and decision-making
First right of refusal clauses when appropriate
Provisions prohibiting disparagement of the other parent
Clear boundaries regarding introducing new partners
Court-ordered interventions:
Appointment of guardian ad litem (GAL) to represent children's interests
Custody evaluations by qualified professionals
Therapeutic interventions (individual or family therapy)
Co-parenting counseling or education
Substance abuse monitoring if relevant
Supervised visitation if warranted
Parent coordination:
In high-conflict cases, Bergen County courts may appoint a parenting coordinator
Helps resolve day-to-day parenting disputes
Reduces opportunities for manipulation and control
Provides documentation of problematic behaviors
Communication Strategies
Parallel parenting approach:
Minimizes direct contact between hostile parents
Focuses on business-like, child-focused communication
Utilizes structured communication methods
Documentation and communication tools:
Use court-approved communication platforms (Our Family Wizard, Talking Parents, AppClose)
Keep communications brief, informational, and child-focused
Document all interactions regarding the children
Use "BIFF" method: Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm
Information boundaries:
Limit information shared with narcissistic co-parent to necessary child-related matters
Maintain privacy about your personal life
Be cautious about information shared with children that could be used manipulatively
Our team is experienced in every type of divorce in New Jersey and can provide a free initial phone consult on 201-205-3201 via phone, text, VM and we will set a time.
Emotional Support for Children
Create a safe emotional space:
Allow children to express all feelings without judgment
Validate their experiences and emotions
Maintain neutrality about the other parent
Avoid questioning children about the other parent's home
Recognize signs of emotional distress requiring professional help
Professional support:
Individual therapy for children to process emotions
Support groups for children of divorce
School counselor involvement when appropriate
Family therapy to improve communication
Stability and structure:
Maintain consistent routines across households when possible
Create predictability around transitions
Establish clear expectations and boundaries
Provide advance notice about schedule changes
Countering Parental Alienation
Narcissistic parents may attempt to turn children against the other parent through:
Speaking negatively about you to the children
Interfering with communication during their parenting time
Interrogating children about your personal life
Portraying themselves as victims
Undermining your authority and parenting decisions
Response strategies:
Document alienating behaviors
Never respond in kind—maintain positive or neutral statements about the other parent
Request court intervention if alienation becomes severe
Consider specialized reunification therapy
Focus on maintaining your relationship rather than fighting the alienation
Age-Appropriate Approaches
For Young Children (0-5)
Maintain consistent routines and comfort objects
Keep transitions calm and positive
Use simple, non-judgmental explanations about divorce
Watch for regression or behavioral changes
For School-Age Children (6-12)
Provide clear information without adult details
Reassure them that both parents love them
Help them express feelings through play, art, or writing
Maintain involvement in school and activities
For Teenagers (13-18)
Respect their need for input in schedules
Avoid putting them in the middle of conflicts
Recognize their capacity to understand but protect them from adult issues
Support their relationships with both parents while setting appropriate boundaries
Bergen County Resources for Children
Bergen Family Center: Offers counseling specifically for children of divorce
The Children's Room: Support groups for children experiencing family transition
Bergen County Division of Family Guidance: Provides youth counseling services
School-based resources: Most Bergen County schools have counselors trained in supporting children through divorce
By consistently prioritizing your children's emotional well-being over conflict with your ex-spouse, you create a foundation for their healthy adjustment despite the challenges of divorcing a narcissistic parent.
Post-Divorce Challenges with a Narcissistic Ex
The challenges of dealing with a narcissistic ex-spouse often continue long after the divorce is finalized. Understanding and preparing for these challenges can help you maintain boundaries and reduce ongoing stress.
Common Post-Divorce Manipulation Tactics
Financial manipulation:
Deliberately late support payments
Hidden income to avoid support obligations
Excessive demands for financial documentation
Requests for modifications based on manufactured hardship
Using children's expenses as control mechanisms
Co-parenting challenges:
Inconsistent adherence to parenting schedules
Last-minute schedule change requests
Undermining your authority with children
Creating parallel rules and expectations
Using children as messengers or spies
Excessive communication or alternatively, withholding necessary information
Legal harassment:
Filing unnecessary post-judgment motions
Repeatedly requesting modifications to settled matters
Accusations of parenting deficiencies
Refusal to comply with court orders
Demanding court intervention for minor disagreements
Emotional manipulation:
Attempting to maintain emotional control
Alternating between hostility and false friendliness
Boundary violations
Public attempts to damage your reputation
Using mutual friends or family as allies
Enforcement of Court Orders
When your ex-spouse violates court orders:
Document all violations:
Keep detailed records with dates, times, and specific behaviors
Save all communication showing non-compliance
Calculate financial impacts of violations
Note effects on children when relevant
Enforcement mechanisms:
File enforcement motions for significant or repeated violations
Request make-up parenting time for withheld visitation
Seek wage garnishment for unpaid support
Request counsel fees for enforcement proceedings
In extreme cases, request contempt findings
Modification requests when necessary:
Request more specific order language to close loopholes
Seek modification of communication methods
Request appointment of parenting coordinators
Consider supervised exchanges if transitions are problematic
Communication Strategies
Maintain the "gray rock" approach:
Keep responses brief, informative, factual, and firm
Avoid emotional engagement or defensiveness
Do not share personal information
Respond only to communications requiring response
Utilize technology appropriately:
Continue using court-ordered communication platforms
Set up email filters for ex-spouse communications
Consider designating specific times to read and respond
Use technology to document communication patterns
Consider parallel parenting rather than co-parenting:
Minimize required interaction and collaboration
Focus communication exclusively on children's needs
Maintain separate relationships with children
Avoid joint attendance at events when problematic
Protecting Your Emotional Well-being
Maintain clear boundaries:
Recognize that healing requires emotional distance
Resist attempts to pull you into old dynamics
Decline invitations to non-essential interactions
Separate your identity and life decisions from ex-spouse's influence
Continue therapeutic support:
Process ongoing triggers and stress
Develop coping strategies for unavoidable interactions
Address lingering trauma or relationship patterns
Build confidence in your post-divorce identity
Develop a support network:
Maintain relationships with understanding friends and family
Consider post-divorce support groups
Build new social connections unrelated to your marriage
Create connections with other parents for support
Financial Independence and Security
Monitor credit regularly:
Continue checking credit reports for unauthorized activities
Address financial issues promptly
Maintain separate financial identity
Document financial communications:
Keep records of all support payments
Document expenses eligible for reimbursement
Maintain proof of payment for shared expenses
Plan for financial stability:
Create long-term financial plans independent of ex-spouse
Consider the impact of potential future litigation costs
Build emergency funds for unexpected challenges
Special Considerations for Bergen County
Local court resources:
Bergen County Family Court has post-judgment monitoring programs
The court provides mediation services for post-divorce disputes
Free legal clinics may be available for simple enforcement matters
Enforcement procedures:
Post-judgment motions in Bergen County can be filed electronically
Certain violations may be addressed through case management conferences before formal motions
The county has specific procedures for repeat enforcement issues
Community resources:
Bergen County Bar Association offers referrals for post-divorce issues
Community organizations provide co-parenting workshops
Career counseling and vocational services are available for those re-entering the workforce
When to Return to Court
Not every violation or disagreement warrants legal action. Consider these factors:
Severity and frequency of violations
Impact on children's wellbeing
Financial significance
Evidence available to prove violations
Cost-benefit analysis of legal proceedings
Likelihood of meaningful resolution
Working with your attorney to develop a strategic approach to post-divorce challenges helps you respond effectively rather than reactively to your narcissistic ex-spouse's behaviors.
Resources in Bergen County
Bergen County offers numerous resources for individuals navigating divorce from narcissistic spouses. These local services can provide critical support throughout the divorce process and beyond.
Legal Resources
Bergen County Courthouse - Family Division
Location: Justice Center, 10 Main Street, Hackensack, NJ 07601
Phone: 201-221-0700
Services: Case management, mediation, Early Settlement Panels, post-judgment enforcement
Bergen County Bar Association
Website: bergenbar.org
Phone: 201-488-0044
Services: Lawyer referrals, reduced fee legal programs, legal education
Northeast New Jersey Legal Services
Website: nnjls.org
Phone: 201-487-2166
Services: Legal assistance for low-income individuals
Bergen County Law Library
Location: Justice Center, 10 Main Street, Hackensack, NJ
Services: Legal research materials, self-help resources
Bergen County Domestic Violence Services
24-Hour Hotline: 201-336-7575
Services: Temporary restraining orders, safety planning, court advocacy
Mental Health and Support Resources
Center for Hope and Safety
24-Hour Hotline: 201-944-9600
Website: hopeandsafetynj.org
Services: Counseling, support groups, emergency shelter, transitional housing
Bergen County Division of Family Guidance
Phone: 201-336-7350
Services: Individual and family counseling, divorce support groups
Bergen Family Center
Phone: 201-342-9200
Website: bergenfamilycenter.org
Services: Individual therapy, family counseling, parenting education
CarePlus NJ
Phone: 201-986-5000
Website: careplusnj.org
Services: Mental health services, trauma-informed care
Support Groups:
Meetup groups for divorce recovery in Bergen County
Church-based divorce support programs (various locations)
Online communities specific to divorcing narcissistic partners
Financial and Career Resources
Bergen County Division of Economic Development
Phone: 201-336-7300
Services: Employment assistance, vocational training
Bergen Community College - Career Services
Phone: 201-447-7171
Services: Career counseling, job training programs
Women's Rights Information Center
Phone: 201-568-1166
Website: womensrights.org
Services: Financial education, career development, support services
Bergen County Board of Social Services
Phone: 201-368-4200
Services: Temporary assistance, healthcare access, food assistance
Child-Focused Resources
Bergen County Family Success Center
Multiple locations throughout the county
Services: Parenting support, family activities, resource referrals
Bergen's Promise
Phone: 201-712-1170
Website: bergenspromise.org
Services: Care management for children with emotional and behavioral challenges
Children's Aid and Family Services
Phone: 201-261-2800
Website: cafsnj.org
Services: Therapeutic visitation, family support programs
Bergen County Division of Child Protection and Permanency
Hotline: 1-877-652-2873
Services: Child welfare services, investigation of abuse/neglect allegations
Housing Resources
Bergen County Housing Center
Phone: 201-336-7600
Services: Housing assistance, emergency housing, rental information
Bergen County Community Development
Phone: 201-336-7200
Services: Housing counseling, affordable housing information
Technology Resources
Bergen County Libraries
Multiple locations throughout Bergen County
Services: Computer access, internet connectivity, printing services
Technology Education Programs
Bergen Community College: Basic computer skills courses
Local library programs: Digital literacy workshops
Alternative Dispute Resolution
New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators
Website: njapm.org
Services: Mediator referrals, information about mediation
Bergen County Dispute Resolution Center
Phone: 201-336-6350
Services: Mediation for family matters, community disputes
Documentation and Organization Resources
Bergen County Clerk's Office
Phone: 201-336-7000
Services: Official records, document certification
Notary Services
Available at UPS stores, bank branches, and law offices throughout Bergen County
Creating Your Resource Network
When building your support network during and after divorce:
Assemble a professional team:
Family law attorney experienced with high-conflict divorce
Therapist specializing in narcissistic abuse recovery
Financial advisor for post-divorce planning
Possibly a divorce coach for strategic guidance
Consider proximity and accessibility:
Choose resources close to home or work
Look for evening or weekend availability if you work
Consider virtual service options
Evaluate specialized expertise:
Seek professionals with specific experience in narcissistic divorce
Look for services tailored to your unique circumstances
Consider cultural and language accessibility if relevant
Connect with peer support:
Local or online support groups
Community education programs about divorce
Connections with others who have similar experiences
Many of these resources offer free initial consultations or sliding scale fees. Don't hesitate to reach out for support—navigating divorce from a narcissistic spouse is challenging, and utilizing available resources can significantly improve your experience and outcomes.
Self-Care During and After Divorce
Divorcing a narcissistic spouse is emotionally and physically depleting. Intentional self-care is not a luxury but a necessity for maintaining resilience throughout this challenging process and rebuilding your life afterward.
Physical Self-Care
Prioritize sleep hygiene:
Maintain consistent sleep and wake times
Create bedtime routines that promote relaxation
Consider sleep aids if temporary insomnia occurs
Seek medical help if sleep disturbances persist
Nutrition and hydration:
Plan simple, nutritious meals even during stressful periods
Prepare freezer meals for high-stress times (court dates, etc.)
Limit alcohol and caffeine, which can worsen anxiety
Stay hydrated throughout the day
Physical activity:
Use exercise as a stress reliever and mood elevator
Choose activities you enjoy rather than punishing workouts
Consider stress-reducing exercises like yoga or tai chi
Use physical activity to reclaim your body after controlling relationships
Preventive healthcare:
Schedule regular check-ups and preventive care
Monitor stress-related health indicators
Address emerging health concerns promptly
Consider therapy specifically for trauma responses in your body
Emotional Self-Care
Professional support:
Work with therapists experienced in narcissistic abuse recovery
Consider specific therapeutic approaches for trauma (EMDR, CBT)
Join facilitated support groups for validation and perspective
Set therapeutic goals for recovery and growth
Emotional regulation techniques:
Practice mindfulness and grounding exercises
Develop breathing techniques for high-stress moments
Create emotional first-aid kit for triggering situations
Journal to process thoughts and feelings
Boundary establishment:
Identify your personal boundaries and non-negotiables
Practice assertive communication of boundaries
Recognize when boundaries are being violated
Implement consequences for boundary violations
Grief processing:
Allow yourself to mourn the relationship and dreams you had
Understand the non-linear nature of grief
Create rituals to mark transitions and endings
Find healthy outlets for expressing grief and loss
Social Self-Care
Rebuild supportive relationships:
Reconnect with friends and family you may have been isolated from
Be selective about whom you share your divorce details with
Seek out others who've experienced similar situations
Consider which relationships need boundaries or distance
Create new social connections:
Explore interest-based groups and activities
Consider volunteering for perspective and connection
Join classes or workshops to develop new skills
Build community separate from your married identity
Parenting support:
Connect with other single parents for advice and empathy
Join parent groups or resources specific to your children's needs
Develop co-parenting support separate from your personal support
Find parenting resources for helping children through divorce
Professional network:
Update professional contacts if your name changes
Consider career counseling if re-entering the workforce
Rebuild professional identity separate from marriage
Evaluate work-life balance needs in new circumstances
Practical Self-Care
Financial organization:
Create post-divorce budgets and financial plans
Consider financial counseling for major transitions
Develop systems for tracking support payments and expenses
Build emergency funds for unexpected challenges
Home environment:
Create a peaceful living space that reflects your preferences
Remove or redesign triggering elements from shared home
Implement security measures if necessary
Establish new routines and traditions in your space
Time management:
Build in buffer time around court dates and high-stress events
Create realistic expectations about the divorce timeline
Develop systems for managing co-parenting schedules
Allow time for rest and recovery after difficult interactions
Future planning:
Set short and long-term goals unrelated to the divorce
Consider what you want in your post-divorce life
Take small steps toward new dreams and aspirations
Celebrate progress and milestones
Spiritual and Existential Self-Care
Meaning-making:
Reflect on lessons and growth from difficult experiences
Consider how your values guide your path forward
Find purpose in helping others or creating positive change
Develop personal mission or vision for your future
Spiritual practices:
Return to or explore faith traditions that provide comfort
Consider meditation, prayer, or contemplative practices
Spend time in nature for perspective and renewal
Explore philosophical frameworks that provide guidance
Forgiveness work:
Address self-blame and develop self-compassion
Consider the role of forgiveness in your healing
Distinguish between forgiveness and reconciliation
Work through resentment that may hold you back
Bergen County Self-Care Resources
Wellness centers and programs:
The Valley Hospital Wellness Center (Ridgewood)
Holy Name Medical Center Wellness Programs (Teaneck)
Bergen County YJCC Wellness Programs (Washington Township)
Outdoor spaces for reflection and renewal:
Bergen County Park System (19 parks throughout the county)
Van Saun County Park for family activities
Ramapo Valley County Reservation for hiking and nature
Mindfulness and stress reduction:
Bergen Community College continuing education courses
Mindfulness meditation groups throughout Bergen County
Yoga studios offering trauma-sensitive practices
Creative expression:
Art therapy programs through local mental health centers
Community education arts programs
Writing workshops and groups for processing experiences
Remember that self-care during and after divorcing a narcissistic spouse is not selfish—it's essential for your recovery and critical for your ability to care for others who depend on you. Creating sustainable self-care practices helps you not only survive the divorce process but emerge stronger and ready to build a healthier future.
Conclusion
Divorcing a narcissistic spouse in New Jersey, particularly in Bergen County, presents unique challenges that require specialized knowledge, strategic planning, and robust support. Throughout this guide, we've explored the legal, emotional, financial, and practical aspects of this difficult journey.
The path forward may seem daunting, but remember these key principles:
Knowledge is power. Understanding the divorce process, narcissistic behavior patterns, and available resources gives you critical advantages.
Documentation matters. Throughout every phase, thorough documentation provides protection and evidence that can significantly impact legal outcomes.
The right team is essential. From legal representation to mental health support, surrounding yourself with experienced professionals who understand narcissistic dynamics can transform your experience.
Children need special protection. Implementing strategies to shield children from conflict while supporting their emotional needs helps them emerge healthier from this challenging time.
Self-care is non-negotiable. Maintaining your physical, emotional, and mental health throughout this process is fundamental to achieving positive outcomes.
This situation is temporary. Though the divorce process may feel endless, especially with a high-conflict personality involved, it will eventually conclude, and a new chapter will begin.
Recovery and growth are possible. Many who have navigated divorce from narcissistic partners not only survive but thrive, often discovering strength and resilience they didn't know they possessed.
As you move through this challenging process, return to this guide for reference, but also remain flexible as circumstances evolve. Each divorce has unique elements, and strategies may need adjustment as you progress.
Remember that Bergen County offers abundant resources for legal assistance, emotional support, financial guidance, and child-focused services. You don't have to navigate this journey alone.
While divorcing a narcissistic spouse is undoubtedly difficult, it also represents an opportunity to reclaim your autonomy, establish healthier boundaries, and create a more peaceful future for yourself and your children. With proper preparation, support, and self-care, you can successfully navigate this transition and move forward into a life of greater well-being and possibility.
Our team is experienced in every type of divorce in New Jersey and can provide a free initial phone consult on 201-205-3201 via phone, text, VM and we will set a time.
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